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I want to share this news to all you guys about a person who is suffering from friendship issues...
Let us call her F
F has a best friend w/c she had for the past 3 years of her life.
Both of them liked J-pop, anime, games,
The two were inseperable that even their gang's leader are jealous of their closeness....
But one day at the 3rd year of their friendship...
Her best friend's classmates were K-pop lovers....
F didnt really like k-pop. She never understood it, and never had the desire to like it...
But because of her bestfriend's new classmates...
BestFriend was influenced and turned into a k-pop lover
F always comes to their classroom during dismissal since bestfriend always ask for F's presence...
But F noticed that she was completely ignored because Bestfriend's other friend's were takling about Korean stuff....
Best Friend always says "I really don't like K"
But looking at Best Friend, She LOVES K...
F didnt feel like she was her best friend anymore.
So she thought of something...
She forced herself to love k-pop no matter how she hates it.
I ask you this people....
Is this true friendship?
Is it right for F to like what she doesnt like just to be her Bestfriend's BFF again?
Should they keep on being friends?
or does F need to leave her one of a kind precious best friend for good?
True Frienship is not about likes and dislikes...
It's about the bond...how strong and sturdy your bond is
True Friendship is about Understanding and Knowing yourself and your friend...
It's not about differences...It's not about fakeness nor lies...
If you can feel very happy with him/her...
Then yes, that is frienship....
But if she/he is too blind to see you...
Then maybe he/she is not your TRUE friend...whether how long you two have been...
Fakes are not friends...they're not even true that why they're called fake right?...
Do you want to live a life under a lie?
Do you want a life where you need tape just to make you smile?
Do you want to always feel emptiness inside your heart?
like nothing's there anymore?
I share my thoughts about friendship because I want to tell you guys what Friendship is...What are TRUE friend is....
So...do you have this kind of problem?
Let us call her F
F has a best friend w/c she had for the past 3 years of her life.
Both of them liked J-pop, anime, games,
The two were inseperable that even their gang's leader are jealous of their closeness....
But one day at the 3rd year of their friendship...
Her best friend's classmates were K-pop lovers....
F didnt really like k-pop. She never understood it, and never had the desire to like it...
But because of her bestfriend's new classmates...
BestFriend was influenced and turned into a k-pop lover
F always comes to their classroom during dismissal since bestfriend always ask for F's presence...
But F noticed that she was completely ignored because Bestfriend's other friend's were takling about Korean stuff....
Best Friend always says "I really don't like K"
But looking at Best Friend, She LOVES K...
F didnt feel like she was her best friend anymore.
So she thought of something...
She forced herself to love k-pop no matter how she hates it.
I ask you this people....
Is this true friendship?
Is it right for F to like what she doesnt like just to be her Bestfriend's BFF again?
Should they keep on being friends?
or does F need to leave her one of a kind precious best friend for good?
True Frienship is not about likes and dislikes...
It's about the bond...how strong and sturdy your bond is
True Friendship is about Understanding and Knowing yourself and your friend...
It's not about differences...It's not about fakeness nor lies...
If you can feel very happy with him/her...
Then yes, that is frienship....
But if she/he is too blind to see you...
Then maybe he/she is not your TRUE friend...whether how long you two have been...
Fakes are not friends...they're not even true that why they're called fake right?...
Do you want to live a life under a lie?
Do you want a life where you need tape just to make you smile?
Do you want to always feel emptiness inside your heart?
like nothing's there anymore?
I share my thoughts about friendship because I want to tell you guys what Friendship is...What are TRUE friend is....
So...do you have this kind of problem?
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is irritating af, boring af, uninteresting af... the list goes on.
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I think the best friend is blind for not seeing the situation and F instead of pretending to like things to feel included. You don't have to go so far as long as you properly explain to your best friend. your best friend who you known for 3 years (which i think your trying to say theres a good bond within 3 years)should understand right? i mean communication exists for this purpose and much more for other situation. if your best friend cant understand what F is trying to say and reach the feeling whats the point of having a bond. If best friend cant accept or try to fix leave them be and move on you dont need that person if they cant accept you and they do not deserve to be your best friend. If they come back and see what they did wrong its your choice rather to give them a chance or not If best friend accepts and understands from the beginning and does something about it than thats good! 
In my opinion and the experience that ive gone through its not enough to know someone with 3 years to me its not enough to create a strong bond unless alot of things has happen in 3 years than thats special! but dont forget strong bonding can only be felt not being expressed. so like just cause you got similarity and differences its not enough to create the bond...its not true friendship. friendship doesnt develop in just 3 years friendship unless its to pass time and go with the flow than go for it.to me friendship develops a long period of time it still has more room to grow until you die.hmm i think it still grows even if you die. if your looking for true "everlasting" friendship than dont look for it or try so hard. The friendship grows it takes alot of energy and patience and the way how you do things. you gotta gain respect and give respect, understand,trust and etc its even harder than taking care of a baby! there is still enough time for it to grow it all depends on you and your partner aka best friend or best friends. Choose because you WANT to NOT because you Have to.
Did i say it right with this long rant? Sorry i have a short attention span and like to go off topic and i have really bad spelling and grammar. >.<'
In my opinion and the experience that ive gone through its not enough to know someone with 3 years to me its not enough to create a strong bond unless alot of things has happen in 3 years than thats special! but dont forget strong bonding can only be felt not being expressed. so like just cause you got similarity and differences its not enough to create the bond...its not true friendship. friendship doesnt develop in just 3 years friendship unless its to pass time and go with the flow than go for it.to me friendship develops a long period of time it still has more room to grow until you die.hmm i think it still grows even if you die. if your looking for true "everlasting" friendship than dont look for it or try so hard. The friendship grows it takes alot of energy and patience and the way how you do things. you gotta gain respect and give respect, understand,trust and etc its even harder than taking care of a baby! there is still enough time for it to grow it all depends on you and your partner aka best friend or best friends. Choose because you WANT to NOT because you Have to.
Did i say it right with this long rant? Sorry i have a short attention span and like to go off topic and i have really bad spelling and grammar. >.<'